When we talk about desire,there is a number of wishes that run over our mind. Some of them are achievable and others are not. We don't have control over our thinking and wishes but authentic dreams and desire we do.
Somewhat desire can be quite a difficult issue to deal, especially while you are young and still trying to decide in which direction you should focus your efforts in.
If you truly desire something so keenly that your desire is an obsession, you will have no difficulty in convincing yourself that you will acquire it. The object is to achieve your desire and to become so determined to have it that you convince yourself.
You may have been disappointed, you may have suffered setbacks and defeat during hard times.Take courage, for these experiences have tempered the spiritual metal of which you are made.
Remember,too, that all who succeed in life get off to a bad start and pass through many heartbreaking struggles before they arrive.
Your desire is to be able to know what you want and align all your actions toward it.Otherwise, your actions are just scatter shots randomly wasted bits of time.
However, i'm going to share with you the sets of actions which will help you out to achieve your dreams and desire.
Set your goal
Achieving your goals is most important when you setting it.It should be a plan of action to get to somewhere you want to be.
Your goals tell you about your direction to lead, so you don't get lost or walk around in circles.With each step you take towards your goal, you are creating a new craft in your desire.
Your goals should be specific, achievable, measurable, realistic and time-bound.
Eliminate fear from your life
We all spend our lives inside either one or both of these two cages - our comfort zone and fear. There are some major fear by which every human beings suffer at one time or another.
Fears are nothing but your states of mind and it is sufficient to destroy your desire.
I have also been through fear of confidence then I gained and improved my confidence with public speaking in front of number of audience.
My fear of confidence was lost when I faced multiple faces that were waiting for my tips and suggestion regarding their performance and growth.
Learning new skills
Developing new skills can have a lot positive effect on your desire and life. There was a belief that learning is permanent and it is not possible to change it.
Your learning skills make you unique in the crowd and with these skills you can achieve your desire.
Don't wait for right time
Procrastination is a dangerous disease and if you don't take action for your desire, it will gradually finish your dreams. Based on my experience, putting any of my goals off was a bad decision.It is when I finally began working toward something better that I realized there's no reasonable excuses for postponing.
From now on, accept the fact that it's always better to start, fail and then get up stronger and wiser, instead of waiting for the perfect moment which never comes.
Don't compare yourself with others, your life is just yours.
Instead of feeling happy about what your friends achieved, you feel jealous and often compare your own destination with others.
You forget your original plan or goals in life because you are too obsessed with winning him/her.In the end you lose track of your goals in lives and forget many other things that are much more meaningful and important than competitions in life.So, don't compare and lose yourself and trying to being yourself.
Increase your self-esteem
Research has shown that over 80 percent of people struggle with varying levels of low self-esteem. It is more about your self - confidence and how feel about your abilities and will vary from situation to situation.
Low self-esteem is rooted in your feelings about your appearance or body image It is a big barrier of unsuccessful and it leads to significant physical and mental health issues including anxiety, depression, eating, disorder and addiction.
Having solid sense of self-esteem has the chance to positively impact and powerfully transform every area of your life - from your relationships to your career and success.
What I've learned is that building your self-esteem takes time and you need to work on it.
Have a look some strategies to build your self-esteem ;
Recognize your hidden talent. Stop criticizing yourself. Love yourself. Do what satisfies you. Stay away from negative deeds /environment around you.Find your desire
I'd like to particularly focus on consistency. Consistency and repetition are the sharpest tools in the toolkit of winners. Keep doing. Keep creating and producing. Try again and again because consistency is one of the secret of the success.
A person who doesn't go to the gym all week and then spends three hours at there on Saturday. That's not going to do anything for you in the long run.
Ten minutes a day on something is going to do more than several hours spent infrequently.
Last but not the least your desire doesn't really matter to anyone else. Some people might take interest, some may support, but the end of the day,nobody cares or will ever care about your desire as much as you.