Wake Up With Your Dreams!

    Yes, we’ve got to wake up with our dreams every morning. Understand that we are not supposed to go to bed and forget our dreams. We’re not supposed to tuck our dreams in the pillow when we get up in the morning. We’re not supposed to leave them at home and go fulfil somebody’s else’s dream. We’re not…

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What Do You Do When No One Is Watching? It Truly Matters!

    What do you when no one is watching? It truly matters and I guarantee you, you’ll be doing it when everyone else is watching.  My goal has always been that if there is anyone who can turn things around, change my world, affect lives positively, is ME. If I can get through to doing things that I hate…

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My experience of MeToo and Why I Didn’t Report

Trigger warning: sexual assault and gaslighting This is a difficult post for me to write. It is violent and emotional, but at the same time, I have told this story many times before. I am not afraid to tell it again. I have never been afraid to tell it. Why again? Why now? Because I see you, people who are…

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This is not an invitation for sexual activity | Featured Post

  A naked woman dancing in the street is not an invitation for sexual activity.  While societal norms might frown on such activity, it is not an open invitation for men to “have their way” with her. Whether such things happen is exclusively up to her. But that is not the way much of America sees it. She was asking…

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PTSD & FEAR GOES HAND N HAND | LIFE IS HARD BUT EASY

I apologize for not posting as of late, it’s been quite crazy for me, I have many things on my plate right now like upcoming wedding plans, an upcoming marriage, learning how to be in a relationship after 12 years of being single, my child’s father and his MOUTH ALL ON ME, all in her face and me trying not…

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Love May Not Be Enough, But It Always Makes The Difference.

Love always makes a difference. It interfaces with other basic needs such as security, self-worth, and significance. My sense of self-worth is fed by the fact that my man loves me. I mean after all, if he loves me, I must be worth loving. My parents may have given mixed feelings or negative messages about my worth, but my man…

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Open Letter To My Crush….(Guest Post)

Love is a beautiful thing that we should treasure and appreciate. I have learned never to take the ones I love for granted. When you find the person that makes your heart beat fast, never miss the chance to tell them how special they are. If you don’t, you may regret it for the rest of your life. This one…

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WHAT’S WRONG WITH FAT SHAMING?

Though obesity is a serious health issue, and there is a need to educate people to eat a healthy balanced diet, ridiculing and fat shaming is offensive and a sign of bullying. In a recent interview to Filmfare, Bollywood Actress Vidya Balan shared,” Years ago, I stopped watching my shots on the monitor at shoots because I would look at the…

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Is humanity Falling?

Humanity is facing extinction and we are responsible for running it into the ground. The brutality of human behaviour when things don’t go their way or when they don’t get their own way, causing suffering and strife, the ripple effect of individual entitlement, whether that entitlement is physical, financial or emotional. The beast is within, within each of us, and…

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