PTSD & FEAR GOES HAND N HAND | LIFE IS HARD BUT EASY

I apologize for not posting as of late, it’s been quite crazy for me, I have many things on my plate right now like upcoming wedding plans, an upcoming marriage, learning how to be in a relationship after 12 years of being single, my child’s father and his MOUTH ALL ON ME, all in her face and me trying not…

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Love May Not Be Enough, But It Always Makes The Difference.

Love always makes a difference. It interfaces with other basic needs such as security, self-worth, and significance. My sense of self-worth is fed by the fact that my man loves me. I mean after all, if he loves me, I must be worth loving. My parents may have given mixed feelings or negative messages about my worth, but my man…

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Open Letter To My Crush….(Guest Post)

Love is a beautiful thing that we should treasure and appreciate. I have learned never to take the ones I love for granted. When you find the person that makes your heart beat fast, never miss the chance to tell them how special they are. If you don’t, you may regret it for the rest of your life. This one…

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WHAT’S WRONG WITH FAT SHAMING?

Though obesity is a serious health issue, and there is a need to educate people to eat a healthy balanced diet, ridiculing and fat shaming is offensive and a sign of bullying. In a recent interview to Filmfare, Bollywood Actress Vidya Balan shared,” Years ago, I stopped watching my shots on the monitor at shoots because I would look at the…

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Is humanity Falling?

Humanity is facing extinction and we are responsible for running it into the ground. The brutality of human behaviour when things don’t go their way or when they don’t get their own way, causing suffering and strife, the ripple effect of individual entitlement, whether that entitlement is physical, financial or emotional. The beast is within, within each of us, and…

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Don’t Sacrifice Yourself | Featured Post

Find peace in everything you do. Everything you associate with and everything you are. Choose to have a calmness, a harmony, inside of you. A positive light that chooses joy every day. That chooses to be real every day, real and vulnerable, but strong and secure in yourself. If you can’t find that peace and joy in your current situation…

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TO BE BLACK IS ONE THING. TO BE A BLACK WOMAN IS ANOTHER | Featured Post

In these changing times where women are constantly slaving to break down societal discrepancies, it is important to be realistic about a few things and be able to come to terms with the fact that just as Rome was not built in a day, change is also an arduous gradual journey. It is time for Black Women to know their…

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Breaking patterns

We live in a world where men often tend to secure themselves first and then, destroy others. We have been a race of hunters and poachers and thus this habit developed in us, of spearing our own class too. We can often be encountered blaming patterns for our own created problems in life. We appreciate heavens for good things happening…

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Put Yourself First

  It’s okay to find someone attractive and not approaching them. It’s okay to stay online night long and not chatting with anyone. It’s okay to ask for suggestions and not considering them. It’s totally okay to present yourself as if you don’t care about anything and still examining everything to its minute detail. There isn’t always a reason for…

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