Love or Lust | Featured Post

Love is support not sacrifice, Love is communication not compromise Love is trust not tolerance Love is about energy not ego — jay shetty Lust feels so much like love in fact there is more lust than love out here! Lust is a huge act, it devours and just swallows you all up, its one big show! I remember, dating…

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Finding a Lifeline in Fitness

We all have those special things that we do that get us through the hard times. The special things that are our ways of self-care that combat the doubt and depression. Music, cooking, drawing, getting outdoors, writing… etc. For myself personally, and I know for a lot of people as well, my main way to combat stress, fatigue, depression, (the…

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WHEN SORRY IS NOT AN APOLOGY | Featured Post

When you hear someone say “I’m sorry” do you automatically think that they are apologizing for having done something wrong? Does the meaning of what they said to depend on the context of the situation? When I’ve done something wrong I do say I’m sorry, but I also say that when I haven’t done anything wrong at all. Take for…

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TO BE BLACK IS ONE THING. TO BE A BLACK WOMAN IS ANOTHER | Featured Post

In these changing times where women are constantly slaving to break down societal discrepancies, it is important to be realistic about a few things and be able to come to terms with the fact that just as Rome was not built in a day, change is also an arduous gradual journey. It is time for Black Women to know their…

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Put Yourself First

  It’s okay to find someone attractive and not approaching them. It’s okay to stay online night long and not chatting with anyone. It’s okay to ask for suggestions and not considering them. It’s totally okay to present yourself as if you don’t care about anything and still examining everything to its minute detail. There isn’t always a reason for…

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Lost but finally found | Featured Post

“I lost myself in the process” There are a lot of people asking me why I’m always happy and looks like I don’t carry any burden in life. But honestly, they don’t know how much I’m trying right now to save myself. They don’t have any idea how many times I cried in silence and the only witness to that…

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